I am not one to knock a brotha down when he is already down, but that whole ordeal about his penile implant on the reunion sure got laughs out of me. I really dislike people like Dwight, who think highly of themselves and think that they deserve the best because they think they are the best! (keyword: think) Honestly, Kim should have never really said anything about that but she just wanted the focus to get off her for a second and totally shocked everyone with the Dwight had a penile implant comment! Can you say Karma, Only because Dwight wanted more drama to come off the reunion show, as he entered the building he made comments about all the girls and compared their behavior as going to church. So, Dwight surely got what he deserved.
I am not saying that penile implants are a horrible thing and that you should hide the fact that you got one, but in Dwight's case he went on comparing his procedure to breast implants. Which clearly is in the wrong field in comparison. Breast implants are for cosmetic surgery where as Penile implants are for more serious medical problems. If the brotha had a hard time getting a stiffy than cool, I would do the same if I could not get my pretty penis up too. To compare it to breast implants tho' was the wrong move and he should be ashamed of that, for the people that actually get penile implants for medical purposes. YOU don't get penile implants to make it bigger, you get them because you need to get hard! Dwight sure has a class to him, but I think he is hood and needs to admit that the implant was and is for his sexual pleasure, not because he wanted to enlarge it, but because his aging penis wanted to be as pretty as he thinks he is!
Penile Implants:
Penile implants are devices implanted inside the penis that allow men with erectile dysfunction (ED) to get an erection. Penile implants are also sometimes used to treat Peyronie's disease, a disorder that causes pain or bending of the penis during erections.
Penile implants require an involved surgery. There's a risk of infection and a risk that the device will malfunction. But, since they were first introduced, new materials, designs and surgical procedures have greatly improved outcomes for penile implants. Most men with penile implants and their partners say they're satisfied with the results.
Hopefully the drama next season sticks with the girls and does not involve Dwight's "who cares" feedback. I surely did love Nene in the beginning, but her attitude sure has changed...I am Team Kandi and Lisa!! you go girls. More fights and drama over bottles of Cristal, please!
The 80's are back or was it back along time ago? It seems that fashion trends from the 80's are coming back with a bang and have been since the late 90's. Introductions of the new fashion and well as dances, have always featured bits and pieces of the past to make it to the present, wish people were like that CHANGE is good!
Sarah Jessica Parker, sporting a Madonna-esque wardrobe for her upcoming film "Sex and the City 2. This caught my eye as I was strolling over to JustJared.com and I must say besides the headband this style is pretty cool and wouldn't mind seeing this on the sidewalks of Kihei. It seems everyone is vying to be different that their outfits seems to clash or just becomes one huge ass FAIL! no you shouldn't match head to toe with the same color and fabric, no you shouldn't wear outfits that seem to make you look fatter, unless you can pull it off, no you shouldn't get all dressed up and wear $1.99 flip flops with you dress pants. Okay I am no fashion mogule, but I surely do know what looks good and what doesn't.
Common-sense right, everyone should invest in a full body mirror and take a look at themselves before they step out. Being confident and looking good, deserves an A++++ =)
two more shots below and I must say that they truly captured the essence of these characters through clothes, great job wardrobe department. Now only if we can convince people to dress like this, the world would be easier! =) pictures provided by JustJared.com:
Recently I sent in a resume for blogger job, knowing that I might not get it, but wanted to see if they might just like me. Unfortunately they wanted to go in another direction, which I knew, of course! The blogger job I was applying for was for a magazine company that focused on tourist things around Maui and they were based here, as you can tell my blog is way beyond Maui attractions and tourist destinations. I just wanted to put myself out there and really have been sending my resumes left right, I guess you can say that I have been doing that nonchalantly. With the crisis that everyone is going through, either being laid off or fighting for a position, it seems that countless people are just putting in their resumes hoping that someone will bite.
I must say though, sending my resume to the magazine, I sort of giggled as I pressed the send button. I pictured a clad lady of about 40 years old, clicking my link to my site. Of course, there is nothing in my blog name that indicated that this site leans more towards the gay agenda. I imagined her stepping into the office with her usual latte, sitting at her desk sorting through her emails and out pops my site. Big eye and all, she doesn't even scroll down to read the articles, but instead emails me quickly in a very professional way saying that they want to go in another direction, when actually they don't want my type writing for a magazine that caters to the upper middle class tourist. As she scrambles to recompose herself sitting there in awe, she can't believe that I would even try to send apply for the position. Secretly, she favorites my link and decides to take a look at it on her personal time, making sure no one else is in the office, the content might be offensive to others, but her curiosity prevails and she reads every single article. I am guilty pleasure, that's what I wanted. I won. I.<3.my sense of humor.
I was debating whether or not to change the layout of my page and PC my blog up, but decided that this started of as a personal fun thing to do and I shouldn't it. Offensive or not, this keeps me sane and I love it. yay for blogging.
no wait its the manly looking Kardashian sisters! Khloe (why do I have to be under Kim's shadow) and Kim (im losing my image, everyone compares me to her anyway...so I will just be her...look at my ass and ROAR! ) =) Khloe went for the sophisticated Ad look while Kim went for the myspace mirror picture look! hmmmm..which is better..chances you heterosexual horn dogs will go for the JLO look alike...I think I will stay safe and say neither...wait didn't Anna Nicole Smith promote Quick Trim before she pass...BTW...if you take these pills will you then loose weight and shoot directly to fame and fortune by simply being someone with no talent whatsoever...or would you have to make a sex tape first..just asking!
DOWNE Derived from the definition of "downlow" which was taken from the African-American Community. Brought in by the Filipino/Asian-American Male & Female LGBT community. Reinvented into the word "DownE" with a capital "E" expressed during the hype of the raving/exstacy scene which began to popularize in the early 90's. Giving those who are on the "downlow" a more open environment (i.e. E-parties.) Those using the term "DownE" also used it to seperate themselves from society's stereotype of a Gay Asian Male, as well as Gay Asian Female. As a means of communication. The internet played a major role in the growth in popularity for the word "Downe." With websites such as Downelink.com, the definition of "downe" is constantly changing. A good thing or a bad thing, take it as you will. From my opinion, the definition can't be found on any dictionary. Define it for yourself. Whether it be just another term for being Gay, Lesbian, Etc. or make it mean more to you than just a label.
The much anticipated new show GLEE, on Fox, is going to finally hit airwaves next week and I am super-excited and have already Tivo'd it! Viewers got a chance to watch a director's cut this evening and of course I had to watch it. I really did not know what to accept, just that there was singing and great names on the show. My over-all reaction was...I LOVED IT! I laughed a few times and was so enthralled by the singing voices of the students at Mckinley High School's Glee Club. It has everything from "teen/chick flicks" that you could ask for, the jock with a heart, the popluar girl you love to hate, the nerd, the homosexual, diversity and a love story amongst the teachers. Ahhhh new favorite show, something funny to add with my collection on dramas and hospitals this is a nice change. If you haven't watched it yet, I suggest that on the 9th you put down what your doing and take an hour of your night to watch this show. loves it!
taken from FOX.com:
The series follows an optimistic teacher, WILL SCHUESTER (Matthew Morrison), who - against all odds and a malicious cheerleading coach - attempts to save McKinley High's Glee Club from obscurity, while helping a group of aspiring underdogs realize their true star potential. It's a tall order when the brightest stars of the group include KURT (Chris Colfer), a soprano who hits a high note in fashion; MERCEDES (Amber Riley), a larger-than-life diva with a voice to match; ARTIE (Kevin McHale), a geeky guitarist who rocks and rolls; and TINA (Jenna Ushkowitz), a punk rocker who hides behind her stutter and blue hair extensions.
Will is determined to do whatever it takes to make Glee great again.
Will's only hope lies with two true talents: RACHEL BERRY (Lea Michele), a self-proclaimed star who is convinced that MySpace and show choir and are her tickets to fame; and FINN HUDSON (Cory Monteith), the popular high school quarterback with movie star looks who must protect his reputation from his holier-than-thou girlfriend and "Cheerios" head cheerleader, QUINN (Dianna Agron), and his arrogant football teammate, PUCK (Mark Salling).
Everyone else around him thinks he's nuts. He's out to prove them all wrong.
Will is determined to do whatever it takes to make Glee great again, but his only ally is fellow teacher and germaphobe EMMA PILLSBURY (Jayma Mays). Everyone else around him thinks he's nuts - from his tough-as-nails wife TERRI SCHUESTER (Jessalyn Gilsig) to McKinley's scheming cheerleading coach SUE SYLVESTER (Jane Lynch) - but he's out to prove them wrong.
Featuring a soundtrack of hit songs from past and present, GLEE is produced by Ryan Murphy Television in association with 20th Century Fox Television. Ryan Murphy, Brad Falchuk and Ian Brennan are co-creators of the series. Murphy, Falchuk and Dante Di Loreto serve as executive producers, while Ian Brennan serves as co-executive producer. Murphy directed the pilot.
While watching the documentary, I love documentaries BTW, I could not help but find something to blame. Is it sane to always look for someone to blame, when problem happen? I could not help myself but think when different cultures arise in our society, there always has to be starting point. Now where does it start? My psychological mind weighs out all the options and of course I begin with nature vs. nurture? Does "rape culture" begin at home or do we learn it from our peers or the media.
To me the media is the easiest answer, the gold mind, the starting point! Although, the media respectably has a huge role in our behavioral process, we can not just blame them. Yes, I know sex sells and (yes) we do find ourselves getting enthralled by all the hype. Our parents and peers could be the blame, as adolescents kick in we are taught to think a certain way(usually stuff that fits our gender..and then the gender role debate begins). From birth we either wear blue or pink (sometimes green), our parents give us toys base soley on our gender, we are taught "big boys don't cry" and "girls should not play in mud, brush your hair a 100 times instead." Mentally we grasp what being a boy means and what being a girl means, but whnt does sexual abuse come to play.
Does it happen, because boys are taught to be aggressive and girls are taught to be submissive? We can equally blame both nurture and nature for these types of behavior, we can say it starts from home or its because there is so much sexual promiscuity happening on TV! Is that even a fair accusation to make, is that even fair for both the media and the parents.
The nature in which we are brought up, is the result in what we become (right?) Our home-life and surroundings play a huge role on how we view life and there is not simple answers on how to raise the perfect child. Sexual abuse happens in all classes in society. It does not matter if you were dirt poor or fed with a silver spoon.
I believe that sexual abuse is a learned behavior as with lying. There are things that we can do as a society that teach kids how to act within certain groups. It's not as easy as it sounds, but if we continue to teach our kids that men are only this way and women are only that way (yes, its still happens) then this battle of sexual abuse will never end. We can start by taking our "heads out of the sand," pretending that if we just don't think about it, than it will go away. Later acting like we are "deers caught in headlights," when happens close to home. We need to educate kids on social things and be more open about stuff, talking about sex and different sexualities will not unleash the cat from the bag (they will not turn gay or go whoring around, I promise you!)
Sexual Abuse, is a horrible thing, and I do not wish this on my worst enemy, but if we do not do something to stop it and if we keep trying to find someone to blame than cultures like this one will never end. We can blame Kid Rock, we can blame the media, we can blame parents...all these things are not helping the situation, we are just blaming!. Kids are so vulnerable...we should not restrict them from learning and educating themselves with knowledge other than school!. We should teach them about gender roles, what is right and what is wrong. We can allow them to have relationships with different classes and different genders. We can teach them that sexual abuse (in all its forms) is wrong, no matter what people tell you! If we listen to kids and our peers, than we can find and learn things from each other. I know it seems like all this has been said before, but if we open up conversation and let kids/peers speak about what their thinking than maybe we have a chance to teach them or praise them! COMMUNICATION and LISTENING is the key, well it should be the key, to raising wonderful children! We want (demand) so much from kids that no wonder they sometimes fall off the path and venture on to crazier and badder things. We can not lock up our kids or let them go, hoping for the best!
"Rape Culture" in the U.S. is apparent and it is not a new thing people, it has been happening since the dark ages! Sexual Abuse is manipulative, gross and disgusting. The power-struggle between male vs. female is ever so prominent now. Now that women are in power, now that men can be feminine...our society is in shambles and we cannot think that this will just blow over. People need to go with the flow and stop meddling with the Idea, " I am man, I have power...I am woman, I have babies".
"YES, the US is more of a rape culture than ever before. Everything has become sexualized. young girls are ostracized if they don’t give head to some young boy….yes, it IS about power.
There exists a train of thought that men are SO AFRAID of women and our personal power that they have to assert themselves in the lowest, basest form of manipulation to make themselves feel better about who they are.
Can you put the blame on parents? Not wholly, as peer pressure and the media are powerful tools of manipulation.
We CAN and SHOULD combat this thinking so we women can empower ourselves so that our whole being is accepted as equal partners and equal human beings in this and every society on the planet." -Ksdancer
"Rape cultures have existed for centuries. The Vikings raped the women in the villages they attacked because it was an attempt to breed out the enemy. Was it right? No. Was it about sex? No. Was it about power? Yes.
Rape is an effective power tool. It has been utilized in warfare since man first started having wars.
I think everyone is missing the point of what a few people were saying in the video—rape isn’t about sex, it is about power. That’s why there exists a rape culture in the Middle East and Africa—not because women are overly sexualized, but because the men are on a power trip.
Sex is out in front here in the US, and I do think that has desensitized us to it. But I don’t think that is the reason why we have “rape culture” it is because there is a power struggle." -writergirl
"I’ve actually discussed this very topic in multiple classes in college. I don’t think that we necessarily live in a rape culture; comparing our sex-culture to that of middle eastern countries where the concept of marital rape is nonexistent is… well… a little silly.
I think the issue at hand is that America, culturally, has a history of sublimating sex into violence. The number of films with frontal nudity in them is tiny in comparison to the number of films with graphic violence. You can’t see a naked breast on network TV, but you can certainly see a fight, or a mugging, or any number of violent acts.
On European television, contrariwise, you see nudity all the time. Commercials are full of it. In France, after 10 pm, anything goes. You can show pornography on TV and it’s perfectly legal. But European television has drastically less violence and gore.
We have problems with rape in a large part, I believe, because we’ve been taught so long to translate our sexual urges into violent urges. Violence is “natural” and “only to be expected” and “predictable,” while sex is “dirty” and “animal” and “shameful.”
We need to grow up as a culture and learn that, to paraphrase Heinlein, the naked body is sometimes pleasant, often disappointing, and never really important per se." -lareinedeslames
I.heart Justin Monroe and he is coming out with a new book called "Down the Rabbit Hole," in which he captures "celebrities" in raunchy, sexy fairy-tale themed images! yay coming out in November. names such as, Jessica Rabbit, Amanda Lepore, and Eric Rhodes are a few that worked with him for his upcoming book! =)
Yes, this is true the media has changed the way society lives. Society has and will always shift with the underlying concepts that the media potrays and the biggest thus far aside from wealth is health. Every where you turn, you are confronted with the ideas of what looks hot and what look bombs. Isn't enough that the media fails to cover how the economy is changing the lives of the people, rather they focus on which next star is over-dosing or wearing the next best thing (that nowadays no one can seem to buy). Don't we hate the fact that the media can make or break someone! Why do we let ourselves get involved in such debauchry of the human spirit! We live to live, right! Lately it seems that we live to be like others, to be like the celebrities and reality stars that we see on TV! We hate them so much that we want to be like them!
I have recently been on a journey of trying to lose weight, but I was losing it for the wrong reasons and found myself defending my diet regimine and then going against. I was not happy with the way I perceived myself and caved in and wanted to be like a STAR, then a month later I hated that I could not eat whatever I wanted and stopped it.
SKINNY is the new key to success, fame and fortune. We never see anyone bigger than a size 3 get media air time, the stars who are curvy get media attention for losing weight and than there are those special ones who are nothing but a size 6 and then called "FAT".
Why do we allow ourselves to be taken by this and try to change who are...FAT people want to skinny, skinny people want to be FAT! its a loose loose situation. arrgh! I hate it!
I am afraid that I am going to be one of those fat people that preaches that I love my body and then loose weight and preach that I look better now than before, its a constant battle! It seems that no one will ever win.
Am I losing weight to eventually better my health? hopefully, one day I find the strength to finally admit that fact rather than believing if I loose weight than I will be successful!
why do I constantly feel the need to change the way I look, as If that is going to change who I am?
I have a loving boyfriend who loves who I am. David looked past the fat and saw me for me, why can't I do the same?
rant!
AM I BLAMING THE MEDIA FOR MY ROLLER COASTER DIET?
Ashton Kutcher is invading our television sets again, no its not another version of PUNK'D and no we wont be seeing him on screen. Kutcher has produced a new series out Sept. 10 on CW, which looks into the lives of models, the not so glamorous life. After cameras and lights are put away the real person, aside from the facade they show, hits reality until there next big gig.
The life of a high-fashion model appears glamorous and sexy, but as every new model quickly learns, behind the beautiful façade is a world of insecurity and cut-throat competition. Two teenage models who are about to discover this world for themselves are Raina Marinelli (Sara Paxton, "Last House on the Left"), a stunning beauty with a secret past, and Chris Andrews (Benjamin Hollingsworth, "The Line"), a strikingly handsome Iowa farm boy.
When Raina makes an unforgettable impression at a show introducing the new line from designer Zac Posen (appearing in a cameo role), she steals the spotlight from her friend Sonja Stone (Mischa Barton, "The O.C."). Sonja has been out of the country for mysterious reasons and is now desperate to reclaim her standing as the reigning supermodel. While Raina and Sonja live at the top of the fashion food chain, Chris is starting at the bottom, having just been discovered by an agent at the Covet Modeling Agency, which is owned by former supermodel Claudia Foster (Elle Macpherson, "Friends").
At his first photo shoot, Chris' inexperience almost derails his career until Raina comes to his rescue, showing him how to relax and work the camera. That afternoon, Raina brings Chris to the "models' residence" where she lives along with other young hopefuls, including Marissa Delfina (Ashley Madekwe, "Secret Diary of a Call Girl"), Isaac Taylor (Corbin Bleu, "High School Musical 2") and the current alpha-male-model known as Cole Shepherd (Nico Tortorella, "Twelve").
At an exclusive industry party that night, Chris is again impressed by Raina's generosity when she steps aside to make sure Sonja lands a job that will resurrect her career. However, after an ugly scene with an agent, Chris is left to question whether he can survive in this world of dangerous excess and fleeting fame.
I am not sure if I should go right now and start TIVO'ing this show, it seems far fetched and is so whats not it. ALL these damn teenagers and wannabe heiress only want to see the good life and not the bad one. pretending to be built on cash...umm these people are fake! I think I will end up watching the first episode and decide from there on if I want to watch more of it! Sounds interesting, seems like a mixture of 90210, models inc and Melrose place all put togehter! YES, ladies and gents I fit in that geneartion (early 90s)...what caught my eye tho' was all that promo photos! hot-ness..I mean come on, who is not going to watch a show with an ad like that...yes people SEX SELLS! people will watch it, regardless the story line!
I stumbled across her page from some random website and fell in love with her satire-ish humor! I LOVE IT! I have not seen all the videos, but the ones that I have seen are freakin hillarious. The first time that I watched her, I was like is she for real! Then I saw her other videos and realized this B*tch be teasing them peoples! (my attempt to speak ghetto-ish, really bad FAIL!) I need to find more info on her all I have right now is that she is half mexican/half filipino and lives in CA (I think). Well girl keep bring them videos and we sure will be watching. She actually has a pretty big fan base, arrgh why haven't I heard of her before! .... you go girl. She is like the biggest "fruitfly" out there. Well not the biggest, but the ultimate..I.heart her and her little friends too. She and her friends have undoubtedly inspired me to make videos again, so expect more. I have no idea what happen to my other videos on youtube!!! hmm MYSTERY! but here is my youtube page.."youtube.com/andepascua"
Yes for all you twilight, true-blood, vampire fanatics who have wanted to experience the "FANGBANGING" experience then this item should be hidden in your top drawer or if your nasty enough than on top of your book-shelf! Tantus, maker of toys for the sexually proud and curious bystander, has brought back their sparkling dildo named "The Vamp" and why shouldn't they. Vampire lust is not only for the tweens nowadays but for every single girl that has landed their hands on the books or have seen them on TV have day dreamed or even dreamed about Vampires and I mean sexually of course, the fascination of Edward Cullen, Bill and Eric are of course sexually based and that is why they are so popular. These sex toy makers know what sells and they are good at that! =) "The Vamp" can be used hot or cold, but of course you females and males will be refrigerating your piece to get the "real" experience. I mean who wouldn't want to feel the coldness and stiffness of a Vampire in you...
but if me speaking about it isn't enough, click the link for a picture. OMG, I want...umm YEAH RIGHT! hmmm I wonder if any of my over indulgent, over whelming, vampire fanatics that I call friends already have one.. I WONDER! *just think about a cold member entering you, as you close your eyes an imagine a vampire whispering sweet nothings to you...now all you need is someone to bite you and draw a little blood. Now wouldn't that be an experience. lol!
Yes I am a procrastinator when it comes to everything and I have yet to realize the consequences of my actions..=) I am trying my best to be on top of everything, oh I can only hear the jokes now..(I guess that was an easy one). I took a much need hiatus from blogging and realized that I was blogging for the masses rather than writing things that matter to me, common now as much of a multi-tasker as I am its hard to satisfy the hunger of you bloggers and supress the ideas of my mind, let alone write them all down in a way that we all can understand.
Because of the hiatus, I have not gotten back to all the comments that you guys have left and I am making way back into my post to assure that I comment each and everyone of you. If you have not noticed I changed my commenting box to satisfy my needs, all my comments come in as emails and I am able to see them all at one rather than individually. The site that I am using for this is called, "DISQUS" and it has had many rave reviews on it and was recommend by fellow bloggers. So there you have it, a little update on me and things that I have changed. Expect more juicy posts and more of me getting personal with it.
